It is a choice not a feeling

For me, love could be something like a puppy who licks your face even after you left him all day. sort of makes sense right?

Love is like ordering a venti white mocha frap. You fall in line, waiting patiently for your turn. once you get to the cashier you greet the person taking your order with a perfect smile.You give him/her your order in a nice, respectful way. That drink you've been waiting to have. Using the money you saved just for that drink. a money, you think,that will be spent for a right reason.after paying, you anxiously wait for your name to be called. once your name was called, here comes the drink made just for you. you drink it, it soothes your thirst.it gives you brain freeze but you still drink it. It made your hand numb but you still held onto it. you finish it. you think to yourself, that was the best 15 minutes of your life. Love is being patient, being kind, it is just. I believe that every person has that "venti white mocha frap" made specially for him/her. Love is holding on even if it hurts. Love is not measured by the time you spent with that person but on how beautiful every second of that moment was.

Out of all the topics we discussed during that meeting, the break-up part was the one that really struck me. Like a bolt of lightning piercing my body. I am very very iyakin.When i dont get to express the anger/sadness i want to express, i just cry. For me, i dont want to break-up with someone face to face. I dont want to cry in front of the man i will lose. It's weird and sort-of wrong but that's my stand. Another one was with the jealousy thing, i believe that girls should not get too jealous. i mean, as long as the guy is assuring you that he loves you, believe him. and let your trust overpower that jealousy. And if he cheats, its not your fault. It wasnt your mistake. It was his.

So there..love, it is a choice not a feeling. I don't believe in love at first sight. I believe that you choose the one you love and you hold on to him as long as you could. Like penguins (kaya sila favorite animals ko), they spent half of their lives searching for their pair and once they find it, they stick to it and they never let go. (sweet diba? :) )